Then were on the same page if you had some type “wtf” response to the title of this post. Here’s the backdrop of just just how this idea/topic whatever you’d prefer to call it stumbled on my brain.
Not long ago I became when you look at the bus that is greyhound in NYC , minding my company (according to usual) whenever a random drunk man sparked up a discussion beside me. It had been actually a lot more like a testimony that is unsolicited every single is very own.
He started to let me know which he was at the Greyhound station, not traveling, because he didn’t go back home to their spouse (who he adds is white) along with his young son. Why didn’t he go homeward you ask? Because he believed that purchasing himself a $3000 set of earrings for his birthday without telling his spouse ended up being appropriate. She ended up beingn’t too happy about this. And also this is when the subject at hand comes to relax and play. After telling me personally this sob story, he turns for me and claims “Black women are mean”
Me: *slowly turns head* “And sir, exactly just what perhaps you have, as a man that is black done to donate to that?”
Dude: *totally avoids answering the question* “I want to be addressed such as a King, and I’ll treat my women like a Queen. We don’t want to argue and possess all of that mindset blah blah blah”
So basically this “black women being mean” crap ended up being their reasoning why he desired to be by having a having a woman that is white. Ummm? So just me personally maintaining it real, we have in which the foundation of the “theory” arises from but by no means agree with. I don’t understand how, We don’t know why but yes women that are black significantly more assertive than females of other events. I understand myself actually, I happened to be raised not to let people walk all over me personally simply because I’m a minority and a female. I’m additionally maybe not likely to become sometimes this mindset does not trickle into our relationships I think that’s the point that dude was getting at) because it does (.
Yet and still, I’m certain there clearly was a white girl or woman of another battle and back ground that doesn’t simply take mess from grown men pulling boylike stunts.
“..and as he access it, he keep your ass for a girl” -Ye that is white
But him sitting there and justifying that the reason why he had been perhaps perhaps not in a relationship having a black females had been bullsh*t because he’s just silly. In the event that you planning to pull silly stunts in a relationship has turned you away from black females because “they’re lacking that” then therefore be it. By all means save us the problem. I do believe any woman that is sensible have now been angry if their husband made a sizable purchase without talking about it using them beforehand.
We can’t even state maybe a black woman will have handled it worse compared to a white girl that he was scared to go home because she may throw hot curlers at him because he said out his own mouth. I assume their theory that is little backfired him.
This really is a rather topic that is interesting. Specially thinking about the reality the countless black ladies believe that as soon as a black colored guy is effective he doesn’t want to be having a black colored females. He’d go for a white or “exotic” searching girl to share their success with.